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Trading Flesh for Cash: Inside the Strip Club

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Trading Flesh for Cash: Inside the Strip Club:

democraticnonsense:

A nice historical overview but the conclusion is pretty weak. 

Those in the sex trades do not trade their flesh for cash: this isn’t The Merchant of Venice. They trade their services, whether it be stripping or full service sex work, and referring to it as “trading flesh for cash” is not only misinformed but condescending to the skilledlabor that is sex work. - E.C.


We’ll be announcing some exciting news this Monday! Stay...

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We’ll be announcing some exciting news this Monday!

Stay tuned, you cool cats…

Calls to change Queensland prostitution laws | 4ZZZ Brisbane 102.1FM

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"Yes," Eliot Spitzer told host Chris Hayes on MSNBC, he is a feminist. Hayes had just played him a..."

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“"Yes," Eliot Spitzer told host Chris Hayes on MSNBC, he is a feminist. Hayes had just played him a clip in which Sonia Ossorio, the National Organization for Women’s (NOW) New York City chapter president, denounced him for paying for sex. "Do we want an elected official," Ossorio asked, who has "participated in sustaining an industry that we all know has a long history of exploiting women and girls?" Spitzer countered that, as governor, he passed a tough anti-sex-trafficking law (never mind that he broke part of it). It was a conflict you rarely see in public: two people competing for feminist cred over sex work—Spitzer the prosecutor (and repentant customer), Ossorio the spokeswoman (that sex workers never asked for). As is often the case, their sex trade bona fides don’t extend to actually having done sex work, but in using sex workers to make a political point. What they missed was that they were shouting from the same side of the stage…”

- My new piece for the Prospect, “Sex workers vs. Spitzer,” or why Spitzer’s anti-sex work feminism is the same old thing. (via melissa)

I Pretend I’m Horny, You Pretend You’re A Dog: Performing Consent In The Club

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I Pretend I’m Horny, You Pretend You’re A Dog: Performing Consent In The Club:

willgrahamssweat:

My post on consent for Tits and Sass is up:

Even more common are the customers who, while receiving a lap dance, will announce how hard it is not to touch me, how crazy I’m making them and how they can’t believe they’re actually restraining themselves. The weird part is, most of these guys are sitting perfectly calmly, hands at their sides or gently resting on my hips; the tortured anguish of their words isn’t reflected in their tone or their face. I never know what to say to this; it seems laughable that they’d want accolades for adhering to the bare minimum of respectful behavior and abiding by fairly well-established rules, but there you go, they do. I coo at them how impressed I am and how strong they are, wondering if I’m overdoing it. But apparently, I’m not. It’s like we’re both performing our parts in a ritual: he expresses his masculinity with these protestations and I get to reaffirm it, as audience to, as well as cause of, his struggle.

It’s a question I’m increasingly preoccupied by; are these protestations sincere? To some extent it seems to be part of these men’s understanding of their role as strip club customer: they come here to relax, to let loose with some girls gone wild. They wouldn’t know how to just sit back and let me do my thing. They’re just doing their duty by moaning about how hard it is to restrain themselves. It’s the rhetoric of catcallers, of rape culture, and they take it on so easily. I want to know if this is how most men see themselves.1 Why is customer pleasure so often constructed in opposition to personal boundaries, and does it need to be?

Some BitterWhiteGuy already wants to talk abt it.

(I didn’t name it, Bubbles did, and I’m so glad the title is making me cackle)

Remembering Tracy Connelly (and honouring street based sex workers) | The Vixen Hour

Save The Date! On November 14, 2013, RedUP will celebrate three...

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Save The Date!
On November 14, 2013, RedUP will celebrate three amazing wonderful years producing the Red Umbrella Diaries with a grand event: the First Red Umbrella Diaries Gala!
This lively affair will host a variety of performers (all storytellers from previous Diares!) and the debut performance of an original piece of theatre from our trans*women’s improv theatre troop!
— tickets available October 1st —
The First Red Umbrella Diaries Gala
November 14, 2013
Joe’s Pub
425 Lafayette Street
NYC

Location Services and Stalking

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Location Services and Stalking:

queertoddler:

A very important article and news video for anyone, especially cam girls and findommes who use Instagram to advertise their services! One simple click and anyone can have your exact location. Go into your iPhone, click on Settings, then General, then Restrictions and go to your Location Services and shut them off! I had no idea I was exposing myself like this!

gynocraticgrrl: "A study has shown that these reactions - panic...

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gynocraticgrrl:

"A study has shown that these reactions - panic attacks, nightmares, dissociation - are more frequent among women prostitutes than Vietnam veterans."

Romito, Patricia. “A Deafening Silence: Hidden Violence Against Women.” The Policy Press; University of Bristol, 2008. (p. 125 - 126)

The Nixon study was of 47 women from Western Canada, 2/3 of which were 15 or younger. They were also selected specifically because they were brought up in abusive households. The Giobbe piece is an obviously biased and unfounded bit of prohibitionist propaganda. The Farley study is also such (with a focus on roping together all sex work as equally malicious as sex trafficking), and the PTSD reported was particularly in reference to fears of the police, being outed, and general stigma around sex work. And the Williamson and Cluse-Tolar study referenced those in the sex trades who are coercively pimped.

I’ll admit that Patricia Romito is more eloquent and thorough than the average prohibitionist, but she is still cherry picking her data to make statements about sex work as a whole based on research about trafficked children and forcefully pimped women that fits her narrative.

-E.C.

SWAAY’s mission is simple: to grow the American sex workers’...

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SWAAY’s mission is simple: to grow the American sex workers’ rights movement through real public outreach and providing accessible information about sex work to general audiences.

SWAAY stands for Sex Work Activists, Allies, and You, and our tagline is, “Advocating for understanding, respect, and change by connecting the public with the people and facts behind sex work.” Our three-pronged approach is reflected in the web site’s structure, meant to draw in people who are new to sex workers’ rights issues and help them understand what sex workers do and who we are, give them information about how to be respectful allies and ethical customers, and motivate them to support sex workers in changing the bad laws and social stigmas that affect our lives.

Naked Anthropologist | Laura Agustín | Migration | Trafficking | Sex

"We have now reached a point in history where there are more women in the Thai sex industry being..."

The short video we made about lobbying in Albany on the no...

"There Can't Be Numbers:" An Interview With Laura Agustín, Part 2

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"There Can't Be Numbers:" An Interview With Laura Agustín, Part 2:

"Sex isn’t this monogamous pleasurable romantic experience all the time. For example, turning some..."

The Kennebunk sting continues to bring up issues of...

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The Kennebunk sting continues to bring up issues of constitutionality:

"Less than three months after being sentenced to jail, the former Zumba instructor at the center of a Kennebunk prostitution scandal that captured international attention will appear in court again Thursday, this time to fight having to testify at the trial of one of her alleged clients.

Alexis Wright, now serving her third month of a 10-month sentence in the York County Jail, has been subpoenaed by prosecutors to testify at the trial of Donald Hill, the former Kennebunk High School hockey coach who is charged with engaging Wright for prostitution in 2011…


York County Assistant District Attorney Patrick Gordon said his office has anticipated that Wright will exercise her Fifth Amendment right not to testify on grounds that her testimony could be used against her. He said he foresees offering her assurances that she would not be charged with any new crimes.”

From ally Cassandra Avenatti:  Sex workers have all the stories....

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From ally 

Sex workers have all the stories. It’s time that they have a platform to share them within a context of healing, empowerment, transformation and enlightenment. An exciting and radical new book is in the works, and the editor is currently seeking contributions! The book will be a compelling and dynamic collection of essays, poetry and artwork (illustrations, collages, comics, photography) by current and former sex workers, specifically addressing therapeutic experiences in their work. The structure and authorship of the book will reflect the radical, queer approach of the collection, and will offer a diversity of perspectives from contributors at different stages in life and work, and across academic & professional disciplines and activism.

Context and Aims
The dominant narrative regarding sex work is one of victimization – sex workers as desperate, shameful and utterly without agency. With the increased visibility of the anti-trafficking movement, the industry has been painted with broad strokes that obscure many sex worker experiences. By focusing on healing experiences, this collection aims to highlight the diversity of sex worker experiences and to address the oversights in popular discourse.

Not only do many sex workers feel empowered and enlightened by their work, many also create and experience profound healing. The position of the book is that sex workers provide healing for their clients, themselves and for other sex workers that is unique to this specific context.

The collection aims to address the ways that sex workers heal and guide their clients, and also how communities of sex workers provide healing and support for one another. Community-building and mentorship are key elements in an industry that – due to its necessarily secret nature – creates shame and necessitates the masking of identities with family, friends and lovers.  Sex work mentors engage in everything from informal training in harm reduction methods, to apprenticeship in specific skill areas, and consulting in business management.  They also often play the crucial role of safety officers for their mentees. These experiences can help restore humanity, affirm value and increase one’s sense of belonging. These stories remain largely untold, and would be incredibly valuable to share.

This book will highlight the voices of current and former sex workers in order to introduce the idea of sex work as potentially therapeutic to a broad audience. It is important for people to be exposed to these stories in order to improve the practice of professionals that serve sex workers (healthcare providers, social workers, substance abuse counselors, therapists, etc.), and also for sex workers themselves. A positive and empowered narrative can be transformative in the face of stigmatization. As such, low-cost copies of the book will accessible for sex workers, in addition to standard-price copies for the general public.

Potential topics for essays, poems and artwork could include, but are not limited to:

  • The healing spaces and experience(s) that you have created for your client(s) as a Dominatrix, Escort, Body-worker, Dancer or other service provider. This could include helping your client move through psychological trauma or learn to accept physical limitations/changes.
  • The ways that sex work has aided or motivated you in healing, evolving and/or processing trauma (embracing your body, owning your sexuality, honoring your gender, processing experiences of violence, etc.)
  • The ways that your communities of sex workers or your sex work mentors have supported you in healing, growing and thriving in your professional and personal life.
  • The lessons that you have learned about caregiving, empathy, reflective listening and other therapeutic skills through your work.
  • The ways in which engaging in sex work has changed or informed your thoughts on consent and sexuality.
  • The less-than-positive experiences related to your work or others’ responses to your work that have inspired you to challenge values and institutions and have resulted in personal growth.

To submit, individuals should send proposals/abstracts of approximately 250 words and a brief biography to: RedLightTherapyCollection@gmail.com by October 1st. Folks are welcome to utilize pseudonyms and to submit from an e-mail address that they are comfortable sharing. Any details shared will be kept confidential unless the contributor specifies otherwise.

Hard copies of the call can also be dropped off or mailed to locations in which folks do not have ready access to the internet. Request for hard copies can be e-mailed to the address listed above. Additionally, if it is your first time creating a proposal, or if you have any questions about the process, you are welcome to submit your inquiries and requests for support in the process.

*It is important to note that this collection does not intend to obscure the pain and suffering experienced by survivors of trafficking or others who are forced into the sex trade. These abuses of human rights are unacceptable and the stories are incredibly important, however this collection is specifically focused on highlighting the experiences of consenting adult sex workers, and aims to illustrate the diversity of experiences within the industry. The editor is committed to donating ten percent of the profits from the sales of this collection to organizations that directly support survivors of trafficking.

loriadorable: theneverbird: minor-fett: pardon-my-tits: bu...

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loriadorable:

theneverbird:

minor-fett:

pardon-my-tits:

butnobodyknowsme:

Sex workers are human beings…. from cam models to strippers to porn stars. It may not be your cup o’ tea (mmm, tea), but it doesn’t give you the right to disrespect or shame them. 

Reblogging this again because people think that just because someone is a sex worker, means that they are not intelligent, can’t have normal lives, and treat them like complete shit.

I have dated, and would date, sex workers. And without meeting them, I automatically know that they’re better people than 99% of the population.

Why?

They’re not afraid to be themselves. They choose the life that THEY want, and they do what they want to do, despite how hard society makes it; when was the last time you did something, regardless of what people thought?

It takes an iron will, and I will NEVER tolerate someone shaming someone for being that comfortable with their lives.

God bless this post and the comments.

Sex workers rule and so do the people that support them. ❤

Am I the only one who is not impressed by this campaign? It plays so hard into respectability politics. “Oh but I’m doing it for my kids! I’m in school! Respect me, because I’m not any different from you, I swear!”

I got into sex work because of disability and abuse and desperation. My life was fucked up. I was not like you, presumably nice educated middle-class professional viewer. And I still deserve respect and workers rights and human rights. Thanks. 

Also, JSYK, there are a lot of sex workers who are not young, thin, pretty, and light-skinned, and they deserve those things too.

Reblogging for Lori Adorable’s commentary!

Because There's Some Confusion, Here Is a List of Cool Things and Not Cool Things IRT Sex Worker Representation + Respectability

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loriadorable:

COOL THINGS

  • Talking about how much you like your job, hate your job, or feel conflicted about your job
  • Talking about how you freely chose your job or how you started doing it because you had no other options
  • Wanting to see more stories about happy, well-adjusted, and/or well-educated sex workers
  • Putting those stories out there
  • Wanting to see more realistic depictions of not-so-happy or well-adjusted sex workers who do ‘disrespectable’ things
  • Putting those stories out there
  • Wanting to see more realistic depictions of sex workers who are complicated human beings and don’t fall onto either side of the false dichotomy of ‘respectable’ and ‘disrespectable.’ For example, women who find their jobs empowering but might also do things like shoot drugs or cope with trauma issues, or sex workers who hate their jobs but also do normal, upstanding lady things like raise a family or attend grad school.
  • Advocating for sex worker rights based on the fact that sex workers are human beings who therefore deserve full human rights, including safe workspaces, and pointing out that criminalization and stigmatization have been proven anathema to attaining full human rights, *especially* safe workspaces.

NOT COOL THINGS

  • Using job satisfaction as a basis for sex worker rights advocacy
  • Trying to gain rights by getting civilians to see that you conform to their standards of respectability, i.e. are empowered by your job instead of disempowered, chose your job above all other jobs instead of as a last resort, use it to support your children instead of your drug habit
  • Advocating for legalization instead of decriminalization
  • Centering positive sex work stories and silencing negative ones
  • Silencing positive sex work stories
  • Centering privileged workers
  • Not giving any space or credence to privileged workers
  • Reifying false dichotomies by creating and maintaining sex work spaces (conferences, anthologies, forums) that are only for workers who meet certain arbitrary standards of respectability 
  • Not taking an intersectional and holistic approach to sex worker rights

Not sure if I agree that decriminalization>legalization is so black & white but otherwise a nice nuanced look at respectability politics. - E.C.

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